The Meaning Behind The Song: Valentine by The Get Up Kids

As a Music Therapist, I often come across songs that touch my heart and resonate with me on a deep level. One such song is “Valentine” by The Get Up Kids. I first heard this song on a rainy afternoon, and ever since then, it has become a significant part of my life. The raw emotions and introspective lyrics have helped me dive into my own feelings and connect with others who may relate to it as well.

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A Song of Reflection

“Valentine” is a track from The Get Up Kids’ album “Something to Write Home About,” released in 1999. The song delves into the complexities of a relationship that has lost its luster, with the lyrics painting a vivid picture of a conflict-ridden connection. The opening verse illustrates the frustration and feelings of insignificance, questioning the true intentions of the other person.

The chorus then poses a poignant question: “Will you be my valentine if I’m a world away?” This line speaks volumes about the distance that has grown between the two individuals, both emotionally and physically. The fragility of apologies and the changing nature of constants are highlighted, suggesting that even the most unwavering aspects of a relationship can become unpredictable over time.

A Sense of Longing

The second verse of “Valentine” adds a layer of longing and sadness to the narrative. The waiting for calls to come through and the different perceptions of time emphasize the disconnect between the two people involved. The desire to be taken along when saying goodbye underscores a deep yearning to bridge the gap that has formed.

This longing is further accentuated through repetition in the outro, with the line “Constants aren’t so constant anymore” serving as a refrain. The fading constants represent the unraveling of what was once a stable and secure relationship, leaving both parties feeling lost and unsure of their place in each other’s lives.

Beyond the Lyrics

While the lyrics of “Valentine” paint a vivid picture of a troubled relationship, the music itself adds another layer to the song’s emotional impact. The guitars, played by Jim Suptic and Matt Pryor, evoke a sense of longing and melancholy. The backing vocals by Suptic and James Dewees provide a harmonious contrast to the rawness of the lyrics, creating a beautifully crafted emotional rollercoaster.

“Valentine” was recorded at Mad Hatter Studios in Los Angeles, California, and it was released on September 21, 1999, under the labels Vagrant Records and Epitaph Records. The song was co-written by Matt Pryor, Jim Suptic, Rob Pope, Ryan Pope, and James Dewees.

A Personal Connection

When I first stumbled upon this song at a friend’s house, I was captivated by its raw honesty and emotional depth. It served as a mirror to my own experiences and connected me with others who could relate to the challenges of navigating a troubled relationship. The powerful combination of lyrics and music allowed me to explore and process my own feelings in a meaningful way.

Music has a unique way of reaching deep into our souls, tapping into emotions that may otherwise remain buried. “Valentine” by The Get Up Kids is a testament to the power of music as a therapeutic tool, allowing us to connect with our own emotions and understand the experiences of others.

So, if you find yourself in need of a song that delves into the complexities of love and relationships, I highly recommend giving “Valentine” by The Get Up Kids a listen. You may just find comfort and solace in its relatable lyrics and beautifully crafted melodies.

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